Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Queer Couples

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching – and with it comes a whole suite of emotions and pressure to make your partner feel extra special.
Today, Valentine’s Day is often viewed as a fake, commercial holiday that encourages increased consumption. It’s typically centered on heterosexual relationships, which can also make many members of the Queer community feel excluded. Valentine’s Day can also bring up negative memories and emotions that LGBTQIA+ individuals may have experienced in the past as well. But LGBTQIA+ couples have every right to celebrate this day. Even if you feel unsafe or dislike the large displays of public affection, there are still a multitude of ways you can show gratitude for your partner.
If you’re looking for new ways to celebrate this year, we have you covered. Read further for ideas on unique date ideas, alternative and one-of-a-kind gifts, and small things you can do to make Valentine’s Day 2025 the best one yet. Whether you celebrate Valentine’s Day, or treat it as any other day, here are some ways you can make your partner feel seen, special, and included.
Unique, Alternative Gift Ideas
If you’re looking for Valentine’s gift ideas, there are a number of queer-owned artists and businesses that you can support – all while finding the perfect gift for your partner.
LOLiDE is a Seattle-based jewelry artist who advocates for queer inclusivity, gender equality, and a variety of social causes. All of their jewelry designs are gender-neutral – specifically designed to include all individuals and all partnerships, regardless of gender or orientation. On top of that, LOLiDE ethically and sustainably sources all their materials through using fair-mined & conflict-free materials, lab-grown gemstones, or recycled materials. You can view some of LOLiDE’s work below, or visit their website to see more art jewelry!



Thoughtful, Meaningful Date Activities & Ideas
A meaningful date can be the perfect gift for your partner. So here are some unique new date ideas to plan and try out:
- Go to the beach, lake, or nature trail and pick out a rock that closest resembles your partner’s eyes. This is not only a cute memento you have found for each other, but a meaningful activity and quality time spent together.
- Stargaze and learn new constellations together. Create a constellation for your partner.
- Go to your local art museum and be inspired by all the artists’ work. When you go home, create your own paintings or pieces of art to hang up in your home and remind you of your day.

The Little Things Go a Long Way
You don’t need to do some grand gesture on Valentine’s Day – or any day for that matter – to show your love for your partner. Small things like cooking their favorite meal, taking them to their favorite place in your city, watching their favorite movie, or more, can show you truly value and listen to them. Listen to your partner and understand their feelings on Valentine’s Day before you make any plans. Maybe they want a relaxing night in, while others may want a dinner out on the town. Knowing your partner is key to creating the perfect day, any day.